Laws, as they regulate both human behavior and the built environment, unquestionably influence the livability of a city. Another essential—yet often overlooked—force that bears on urban quality of life is manners. Admittedly, many in the twenty-first century would regard any discussion of this topic to be quaintly anachronistic at best. Yet manners (or as one British jurist put it, “obedience to the unenforceable”) are as relevant as laws to urban livability. Manners guide countless daily interactions and determine the character of buildings, streetscapes, and open spaces. In this way, manners affect both the physical health and the mental wellbeing of urban residents, and thereby initiate far-reaching economic, demographic, sociological, and cultural effects. This paper explores the essential relationship between laws and manners and their mutual role in shaping our experience of the city. It draws on a variety of case studies that demonstrate how, together, laws and manners influence social interactions and the built environment. This paper further discusses the nature of manners, revealing that while it is impossible simply to codify good manners, laws can nevertheless be crafted so as to promote civility. Ultimately, this paper shows both how and why manners are as indispensable as laws in creating and maintaining a livable city.
Brian Sirman is an attorney and architectural historian. His scholarship focuses on mid-twentieth century urbanism and architecture, as well as law and political economy. He has written several journal articles, as well as a book about Boston City Hall, which was published in 2018 by University of Massachusetts Press. Brian has taught at Boston University, Lesley University, Trinity Washington University, and Massachusetts College of Pharmacy & Health Sciences. He holds a Ph.D. in American Studies from Boston University and a J.D., summa cum laude, from William & Mary Law School.